Tuesday, April 16, 2013

"Rough Draft"

Well, here goes....
PREPARE
Learn to Take Care of your SELF
 -Clean Body
     *Proper Hygiene: shower/bathe regularly, trim nails, clean ears, wash hands, comb hair, use deodorant, brush teeth
     *Proper Fuel: eat food as fuel, drink lots of water, learn what works best for you, plan, shop, prepare and clean up meals/dishes
     *Proper Rest: go to bed on time, get up early enough to give yourself time to get ready
     *Proper Exercise: be active, be involved in scouts, sports, school activities, etc., or establish your own daily exercise routine (suggested exercises: running, walking, jogging, jump rope, push ups, sit ups, jumping jacks, biking, roller blading, hiking, air squats, planks, lunges, burpees, dancing, etc)
     *Hard Work: daily chores, a good turn daily

  -Clean Mind
     *Keep up in school, do homework, complete assignments on time
     *Read lots of books
     *Set goals and set your mind to achieve them
     *Learn about people and subjects of interest/research
     *Perform casual experiments to test your ideas and theories
     *Keep a clean mind: "Hum your favorite hymn", "If it's bad, look away and turn it off," (thanks, Safety Kids), don't allow deer poop into your life
SIDE NOTE: For one FHE lesson, I told the kids about the mom who made cookies for her kids. Before they took a bite she told them she had used a little bit of doggie doo doo in them. Her kids didn't want any of the cookies!! She told them that it was "just a little bit" and the rest of the cookie would be fine. The kids refused to eat the cookies, of course. I told my kids we have to treat bag language, violence, sex and crude humor as doggie doo doo (we had deer poop on our lawn that morning so I used deer poop instead of doggie doo doo as an example). We can't let even "just a little bit" of the bad stuff enter our lives and ruin the rest of it. The lesson went well and I think they got the message. .... We'll see.

  -Clean Spirit
     *Study the scriptures every day (Alma 17:2, 1 Nephi 1:24-25, 2 Nephi 32:3, John 5:39, Acts 17:11, 2 Timothy 2:15, Mosiah 1:7)
     *Pray Always (D&C 10:5, 2 Nephi 32:9)
     *Serve Others (Mosiah 2:17)
     *Fulfill Priesthood Responsibilities (D&C 84:33, 1 Samuel 2:30, 1 Timothy 4:14)
     *Be worthy to attend the temple (Moroni 10:32)
     *Keep the Sabbath Day holy (Jeremiah 17:22, JST, Mark 2: 26-27, Mosiah 18:23, Mosiah 13:16,18, D&C 68:29)
     *Repent and forsake sins (Mosiah 4:10, Alma 39:9)

Well, iffn that's not enough, I decided to make a list of useful, helpful and essential skills I want my kids to learn. But I warn you, it's LONG!!! And I know there's more I want to add. :)

IN THE HOME
  - Kitchen
     *Learn to prepare 10 breakfasts, 10 lunches, 10 dinners, and a few healthy snacks (mind you, these are the ultimate goals. I'm going to make checkoff lists for each of the kids to keep track of their progress)
     *Clean as you go. Clean up spills when they happen.
     *Learn to make meal plans, using what you've got and store ads
     *Learn how to look for deals and stock up when you can
     *Learn how to wash, rinse, dry and put away dishes, load a dishwasher and start it, unload the dishwasher, clean out the fridge/freezer, clean counters, tables, chairs, and sweep and wash floors

  -Bedroom
     *Make bed, change sheets
     *Organize closet and drawers
     *Learn how to hang pictures properly

  -Living rooms
     *Organize "stuff", clean up after yourself
     *Learn how to wash walls and baseboards
     *Learn how to deep clean windows, including window tracks, glass, and surrounding areas.
     *Learn how to dust properly
     *Learn how to vacuum properly
     *Learn how to change light bulbs and clean light fixtures
     *Learn how to change smoke alarm batteries

  -Laundry/Clothing
     *Learn how to pre-treat stains
     *Learn how to select the right load size and water temperature
     *Learn how to use the dryer properly
     *Learn how to fold clothes properly
     *Learn how to hang clothes properly
     *Learn how to iron clothes
     *Learn how to sew on a button
     *Learn to tie a tie
     *Learn to polish your dress shoes
   
  -Bathroom
     *Learn to use a plunger
     *Learn to fix sink leaks
     *Learn the workings of toilets
     *Clean mirrors, sink, toilet, bathtub, walls, floors and door

  Okay, I'll save the "OTHER" stuff for next time. Thanks for reading. PLEASE give suggestions, ideas, comments, etc. I know it's overwhelming. Trust me, I know! But I feel like I have to break it down like this in order to know where to begin. I think it'll pay off  in the end. Don't expect perfection from us, though. ;)  We're just beginning this glorious journey!! How's YOUR journey going? I'd love to hear about it!



3 comments:

Unknown said...

I am so inspired by you. These lists are terrific - yes, I am going to steal them for my own kids, thank you very much! Keep at it, sis. You and Cody are wonderful parents with 5 wonderful kids who are so blessed to call you mom and dad.

Cowboys said...

You are too cute Bethany. Great ideas. Thanks for sharing. Love you!

Cammie said...

This is great!